The Russians are coming! The Russians are coming!

The story so far: In Nov '02, we were accepted into a domestic infant adoption program. In Jan '03, we decided to switch to their Russia international adoption program. In Feb, we realized this wasn't the right program for us. We found a new homestudy agency, and a new adoption agency, Children's Hope International (CHI). In June, we switched homestudy agencies to Community Adoption Center (CAC). All of our paperwork was finished in August and in Sept our dossier was sent to Russia and on to the Tomsk region. We hope to get a referral sometime this winter and bring our daughter home before May. We hope to adopt a girl under 36 months. Below are daily updates, links, thoughts and tips I want to remember later.

Tomsk, Russia Forecast

Tuesday, September 16, 2003

Tomsk Guide
CHI's page
RIN's info
weather The time is noted on this page, as well. Tomsk is 13 hours ahead of us.
photos of Tomsk
Info about and history of Catholics in Siberia
extensive article on economy in Tomsk
Tomsk.net in Russian
Tomsk Aumni Association Not sure what this group is, but this page includes some info about orphanage/adoption projects
photos of Tomsk orphanages (project works only in Tomsk; photos are found throughout the website)
Tomsk adoption Yahoo! group full of great info for ayone adopting in Tomsk





posted by AnnMarie at 12:00 PM |


Got our "welcome to the waiting/traveling" packet from CHI yesterday. It included the book The First 1000 Words in Russian which I've seen recommended all over the place. :) Raced through the book, picking up just a few things here and there. Two cool things: We are not allowed to give gifts (money or otherwise) to the CHI staff in Russia. CHI does not allow this, per their employment contract. CHI says their salaries are commesurately higher, however. Then, as of January 2003, gifts for the orphanage staff and others are covered by our CHI fees. WOOHOO!!!! This has been something I've really worried about. What's the right thing to bring? How many? What if I don't get it right? Etc. No need to worry. We are encouraged to bring gifts for the children in the orphanage, but we're hoping to buy some fresh fruit! (I also have a dozen or so Oshkosh B'Gosh kerchiefs.)

CHI also recommends against bringing formula and diapers. They stressed that these items (and most other baby items) are readily available, and much cheaper. They will take time to take us to a baby store to buy what we need. So many others have said to bring as much as possible because there's NO TIME to stop and buy things. I like that CHI says they will do so up front.

Need to look into the travel plans more. They will do that for us, but it appears only the international flight--we're responsible for domestic. Besides wanting to use Northwest as much as possible (have frequent flyer miles with them), I don't want to have to plan a flight from here to NY or whereever, that will meet up with the flight they book for us. I want it straight through. The drawback: If plans change and we use them, they take care of rebooking. If we take care of our plans, we take care of any changes. Need to weigh both sides.

posted by AnnMarie at 8:04 AM |


Sunday, September 14, 2003


Tomsk (from various sources)
  • 70% of its population works in academe.
  • region population: 1.078 million (1995); city: 700,000
  • "Tomsk is an extremely beautiful city. It has a lot of wooden carved houses surrounded by a lot of green, beautiful birch trees and parks."
  • "[They] were pleasantly surprised by Tomsk.  Expecting to be in the middle of nowhere in Siberia, they found a quaint, charming, 'old-world' town with lots of history.  They felt very comfortable walking by themselves down the cobblestone sidewalks and visiting the many shops.  They admitted it was a nice surprise and really 'took them back' to the older days in American history." (From a CHI story about an adoptive family.)
  • "In 1604 the Russian tsar Boris Godunov ordered Cossack leader Gavril Pisemsky and boyar son Tyrkov to found a fort on the River Tom, on Tatar land, to protect the river crossing. It became important as a military center for pacifying the native people and evolved into a regional administrative center. Beginning in the late 1830s, its population grew quickly thanks to the intensifying gold-mining activity in Siberia."
  • Rich in natural resources, particularly oil, natural gas, metals, peat, and underground waters. Forests are also among the most significant assets of the oblast: about 20% of the West Siberian forest resources are located in Tomsk Oblast. Industry makes up about half of the regional GDP, while agriculture contributes 19% and construction 13%. Chemical and oil industries are the most developed in the region, followed by machine construction. The oblast's major export items are: oil (62.1%), methanol (30.2%), and machines and equipment (4.8%).
  • Home to 6 state higher education institutions and 47 research institutes.
  • average temperature in January is -25C which is -13F
  • region is about 2x the size of Germany.


posted by AnnMarie at 6:02 PM |


Tomsk's geography is the taiga: "A subarctic, evergreen coniferous forest of northern Eurasia located just south of the tundra and dominated by firs and spruces." (From Dictionary.com) What does the taiga look like? Most of the region is inaccessible because it is covered with taiga woods.

posted by AnnMarie at 5:56 PM |

Friday, September 12, 2003

We're going to Tomsk!
Learned yesterday that our dossier is being mailed today. The selected region is Tomsk!

CHI's page
RIN's info
weather The time is noted on this page, as well. Tomsk is 13 hours ahead of us.

posted by AnnMarie at 5:12 AM |

Thursday, September 11, 2003


The HS page was received yesterday! P. will be calling on Friday to discuss the region to which our dossier is being sent!!!!! We'll be going out to dinner to celebrate!!!! We're so excited!!!!! (In case you couldn't tell by the !!!!!)

posted by AnnMarie at 5:45 AM |

Tuesday, September 09, 2003


On Friday, we returned home after 5 pm to a message from CHI. There were problems in our dossier; we could call before 4:30 or on Monday. AAAARRRRRGGGHHHHH! We were in agony all weekend. Whenever I started thinking about it, I would get anxious and stressed out. I tried to not think about it, but it would creep up. I'd planned some related activities (buying and making things for the kiddo) with my Mom, but really didn't feel like it. However, we did purchase items for the trip (based on earlier lists in this blog).

Monday, I got a hold of P., our agency person. I shouldn't have stressed out! There were two minor issues: the license date (which they gave me) was off by a year and my birthdate was wrong on page 3 of the homestudy. CAC will send them an updated page 3--no need to recertify it all. And I corrected the incorrect date and we got those pages notarized. P. said that our dossier was very well done!

Maybe by the end of the week, the dossier will be complete!

posted by AnnMarie at 12:31 PM |

Wednesday, September 03, 2003


No news on our dossier. :(

posted by AnnMarie at 8:24 AM |

Wednesday, August 27, 2003


We were missing two documents in the dossier. Well, not dossier documents, additional documents. One was a signed fee schedule; I hadn't realized the sheet I had was this document. When I went to copy it this morning, I discovered Eric's supplemental visa form was still in the copier. Ooops. So both are going out in today's mail.

posted by AnnMarie at 9:31 AM |

Vladivostok Guide
CHI's page
weather
time and date It's 16 hours ahead of us (or a day less 8 hours)
RIN's info Vladivostok is not the name of the region. The region is Primorsky.
Vladivostok news (American mirror site)
American Consulate
Yahoo! group


posted by AnnMarie at 7:54 AM |

Tuesday, August 26, 2003


The paperwork was delivered at 9:16am to CHI!!!!!

posted by AnnMarie at 8:43 AM |

Monday, August 25, 2003

PAPERWORK DONE!
We shipped off our paperwork to CHI on Saturday afternoon!!!! I sent off the last apostille request on Thursday. Apparently, the Sec of State's office received, processed, and mailed them all on Friday. They arrived in Saturday's mail. Luckily, we were in the midst of printing off our photos, the only other thing we had left. So we wrapped everything up, got our passport photos taken, and shipped it! (From the Oshkosh Fudge Shoppe, just for the coolness factor of remembering each time we go there.)

posted by AnnMarie at 7:12 AM |

Thursday, August 21, 2003


I just drew a bunch of lines through the "apostilles" item on my to-do list. I just mailed it off! Woohoo! As soon as they come back and I get them stapled, we can mail our dossier to CHI! We can't wait!!! (Ok, we still need to take those photos of the house and receive the last reference letters. Minor details. We'll have that done by the weekend. I'll also be going through all the papers again just to make sure it's all correct.)

posted by AnnMarie at 9:24 AM |

Tuesday, August 19, 2003

Moscow Guide
CHI's page
weather
date and time which is 9 hours ahead of us
The Moscow Times


posted by AnnMarie at 12:54 PM |


Kaliningrad Guide
CHI's page
weather
time and date it's 8 hours ahead of CDT
map of Kaliningrad
History of the city of Kaliningrad is very interesting (and not long). (Kaliningrad is both a city and a region.)
Kaliningrad page with lots of links. Of particular note are three pages of photos from a 1998 trip and a page of siteseeing info (from 2001).
Yahoo! group
Some really cool info about Kaliningrad

posted by AnnMarie at 12:37 PM |


Chelyabinsk Guide
CHI's page
current date/time which is 11 hours ahead of us
current weather includes the time
info from RIN's Russian Map
city guide (official?) includes arts, geography, maps, and more
photos of the area select archive
city of Zlatoust (according to the regions website--not CHI--this is the city CHI works in there)
region/city links
Yahoo! group
Off the Beaten Path tips/info from travelers

posted by AnnMarie at 12:12 PM |




Novosibirsk Guide
CHI's page
weather
current date and time which is 12 hours (half a day) ahead of CDT (the time of these posts)
info from RIN's map
YMCA
telescopes, binoculars, etc., factory
All Siberia's City Guide includes places to go, dining, a virtual tour of the city
Way to Russia's City Guide including internet cafes



posted by AnnMarie at 10:49 AM |


The good news: The homestudy is being updated. And the approval date doesn't change.
The even better news: The BCIS approval does not have to be updated!

Oh, and our social worker said they don't send drafts to adoptive parents. Makes no sense to us, and we'd both swear that she said they would send it to us.

posted by AnnMarie at 9:29 AM |

Monday, August 18, 2003


Good news and bad news. I have to give the good news first, because the bad news doesn't make sense without it.
Good news:
On Friday, we received our home study! Completed, signed, notarized, 4 copies of it and supporting documents required for dossier.
On Saturday, we received our BCIS I-171H approval letter, stating that we are allowed to adopt two children.

The bad news:
The home study has quite a few errors in it. They didn't send us a draft, as promised! We are so disappointed. Otherwise, we'd be jumping up and down. the only thing left would be to get the apostilles. I expected that after we received the homestudy, it would be another month to get BCIS approval, so we never expected they'd come together. So, we need the homestudy corrected. What we don't know is if that will require an update to BCIS. I think so, because the current homestudy is dated July 23 and the BCIS approval Aug 14. If the homestudy gets a new date, the BCIS approval will appear to be before the homestudy was finished.

Everything else with this agency has been so wonderful, we are so upset and disappointed that we didn't get a draft. Since the homestudy was complete almost a month ago, we could have had the draft then. Which means we could have been paper read RIGHT NOW. But we aren't because they really messed up. And that makes me angry.

posted by AnnMarie at 7:22 AM |

 

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